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so, I read a Flordia Teacher can no longer sit kids down with a lgbtqp+ lession plan. I assume they will forget that aromantic asexuals exist, as even the "alphabet mafia" likes to say they don't count. moreso heterotomantic cis asexuals. is that what "don't say gay" is? not "billy said he has to mommies what does it mean?" but "today class I'll tell you something cool. some girls like both girls and boys, this is what love can look like, let me tell you some history!" or, you don't let students derail the alredy existing lesson plan by asking something gay out of the blue that has nothing to do with what they are currenty learning.

but, it's always "so a teacher can't tell his students he is going to marry his boyfriend?" or "so a student can't tell the class what her and her mommies did over Christmas vacation why stop there? it is always that. it's always "you tell a little kid what words mean with how some boys feel in their tummy they want to marry another boy"(as someone told me) if that is what we're doing. why not do more?

you teach the young child about aromantics and asexuals, you teach them about Amatonormativity - Wikipedia , and of course relationship anarchy...such a book could also talk about polyamory. and don't forget "queer platonic relationships. somtimes you love someone, but not really "that way", but your bond looks like it. is that how it works? sometimes people really are just roomates, best friends get married without "feeling that way". it's a little to early to bring up anything legal about those issues. a child can learn it when they turn 13.

while we're telling kids about love, why not all the forms of love? lots of love, you just don't say "when ______ loves _________" love takes more forms, and

pitty there is no age appropriate age besides 14 for What is asexual? Here’s the asexual spectrum, an asexual quiz & everything else you’re curious about / LGBTQ Nation Category:Asexual | Sexuality Wiki | Fandom

Category:Ace-spec identity - LGBTA+ Wiki (lgbtqia.wiki)

I wish that site that had 2,000 identides still had, all of them. even if it was going out of controll with genders.(chicken nugget gender?) sexual lables of "you only feel attraction when it's snowing"(not sure if it was there)

that's the big part of "don't say gay". we should. or "we can't teach kid about this because someone is left out)

Good god, 150 kinds of asexuality. I can't fit that in all in one book

Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love: 7 Types of Love (verywellmind.com)

amatonormativity

split attraction model

relationship anarchy

polyamory
-sex averse
sex indifferent
Agalmatophilia
sex favorable
-positie
-negitive
fictophilia

attachment styles

objectophilia
 Perception of Object Sentience, Individuality, and Consciousness. (Posic+


comppulsory heterosexuality
compulsory sexuality
compulsory romanticism 

parasocial relationship

paternial love

maternial love
surrogacy, egg donation, sperm donation

-philia

paragma

familur love

romantic love

ludus

obsessive love

agape

love language
autosexual

. Philautia  

https://www.ftd.com/blog/give/types-of-love   https://www.verywellmind.com/types-of-love-we-experience-2303200 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201606/these-are-the-7-types-love

asexual spectrum

aromantic spectrum

all this

while we're using the term "orientation" then tell it. be as elaborate yet simple. the forms of attraction.

https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction

https://www.verywellmind.com/types-of-attraction-how-they-impact-relationships-5218956

https://mogai.miraheze.org/wiki/Tertiary_Attraction
Tutelary Attraction
Wechselnd attraction
Amical Attraction
Cedural Attraction
Sensual attraction
Familial Attraction
intellectual attraction
aeshetic attraction
Affinitive Orientations
Amative Orientations
Juvelic Orientations
Amative Orientations

Aesthetic attraction – is it only an asexual thing? – E. H. Mann (ehmannwrites.com) is this to much for a 1st grader? why? how? why not!

from there, we can talk about What Is the Split Attraction Model? (verywellmind.com)

and of course Fictosexuality: What is means to be attracted to fictional characters (nypost.com) . from there is possible, mention Grape-kun. Roy, Silo and Tango got a book. so why not a bird who had a waifu? getting permission to mention Hululu might be hard.

we can talk about limerence too!Limerence - Wikipedia

if now, a teacher cannot teach this, then such a book has to be written. but I don't know how to do it without looking absurd, offensive, mocking. or hurt the people it's "supposed to help" in the end. like, having the format be more like a story, where alter-human, drag queen looking teacher keeps getting interrupted with these things, while teaching the class such things. the teacher can say how "some girls want to marry girls" and a student can ask "what if we want to marry a cartoon character?" and some original characters(that in this book's world are famous). a class mate can say that is stupid and offensive to his 7 dads, plus it's gross to be in love with a cartoon ferret and the teacher will agree, but the real narrator of the book says the teacher is wrong. then someone can ask about what it means to have 7 dads. from here we tell kids what a parasocial relationship is. and that is how "you can date a video game character" and such. although this is a good opportunity to teach consent. as many tell you, fictophilia is terrifying wrong because a fictional character cannot consent to an imaginary relationship. or you 'fancying" them.

it just would be questionable to tell a little kid that some people get the hots for vampires and only vampires, as "fetishes" are not child friendly. people can go without that, so then they turn any other age and will call people who are freaks and tell them to hurt themself or touch grass. it's important to tell them young, so they get kind when older!

I'm possibly missing something. other roadblocks are the fact some of these might be new, and I would need to mention names. and half the book might need to elaborate on the "asexual spectrum" and "aromantic spectrum". unless parent and child do their own research to learn more. just make sure it's noted that a demigrey person is valid and lgbtqaip+ or maybe if you are heterosexual-heteroromantic-fictosexual and cis, "you are still welcome and one of us".

but ahh. I just don't want the cutesy picture book with simple things, like draw a bunch of monsters and writhe "Teratophile love monsters"(use philes even though I would describe what -philia means, when here I mean "Teratophile are in love with monsters and find them attractive".

I want to show this story is in a class room, I want to show a student with an odd or dismal completion (or make them pale purple) state "in my culture we have a monster called a horizon walker" said student draws a monster that looks like a triceratops, but with a human torso growing out of the forhead, insted of a beak a horrifying toothy mouth, it has 8 legs and a tail covered in spines. the kid mentions how it's only active during dawn and dusk in this form, it eats humans. during the day it looks mostly like a normal human. this student states their culture is from Pangea where their ancestors had sophisticated civilization. scratch that. make the kid say "i like this monster called a horizon walker" have the purple bastard say "that is from my Pangean culture, that is cultural approperation, that is sick you want to marry this monster. I have no clue how you even knew they exist, and yes they are real, not make believe! unlike your boogie man"

I want there to be a teacher with an outlandish outfit, who appears to have 3 breasts. that this teacher says hug name is razzledazzle starlasha, is lovegender, goes by hug/hugs/hugself. is an extraterrestrial alterhuman from an artificial planet that looks like a Mobius strip. the planet's name is Zibbon. why? because character design and representation. I want hug to say hug wanted to be a dance therapist for reptiles, but when learning it is not a job, becomes a teacher

I just don't want to say what "Anuafphile is. I want a student character to ask something like "what if I'm in love with a fictional character? I know he's a bad guy but I just adore cyborg menace Hazoid Hippo, , you know from the Molly the Mongoose (we know what it's supposed to be)games" then a student say "eww that is yucky, Hazoid Hippo (I wanted to say Hazard Hound but I feel like someone has that character alredy) is an animal, I was an elephant in a past life, this makes me scared". so now we get told what a Anuafphile person is, as well as therianthropy I suppose. as well as "if it can think and talk like a human, consider it a human. I will also encourage people to make their own Molly Mongoose stories and we can assume Hazoid Hippo is like Bowzer and Dr. Eggman or something. this could also cover "gamophile", and I suppose Furciferofictophile(attraction to villians)

what is it? is it up to me or parents if I have a kid get upset and think his classmate is making fun of his 6 dads when the classmate says they are in love with an animated character(as it's debated if animesexual is mocking same-gender attracted persons. here someone can say "what does that mean to have 6 dads?" then we learn that is how some people love! maybe that same character can say something "ppthh that's not natural, they can't love you back", and we learn about waifus/husbandos , parasocial relationships and Grape-kun. I just don't want a kid with a speech bubble. I want to call him Denden, I want to state he wants to be a phlebotomist who's favorite hobby is playing with his slingshot, that he is a vegeterian and has a fear of dolphins.

I want somewhere an opening for a character to mention either they want to marry or a family member married a toy train, so we get to learn what that means.

not sure how to bring up , these. there were more but the site that had what feels like 20 fictosexual umb rellia terms nuked those pages.

Cartosexual – the attraction to cartoon/comic characters. (Animatesexual too) or is this just schediaphilia ?
Booklosexual – the attraction to novel/visual novel characters.
Visualnovelsexual – the attraction to visual novel characters.
Imagisexual – the attraction to fictional characters one can never see (book characters, podcast characters, etc.)
Inreasexual – the attraction to live-action TV show/movie characters.
OCsexual – the attraction to original characters.
Tobusexual – the attraction to vampire-related characters.
Spectrosexual – the attraction to ghost-related characters.
Nekosexual – the attraction to neko-related characters.
Multifictino – a mix of exclusive fictional attraction. Example: being attracted exclusively to anime and cartoon characters.
Aliussexual – an attraction for fictionkin. The attraction to fictional characters from their source.
Droidromantic - the attraction to android and/or robot-related character

i need somewhere the opening of "how do you know you are in love?" how to know romantic attraction from other feelings. we can't have a 1st grader thinking that just because they have a close bond with a friend and want to hold hands that it means "they want to marry them" right? or grow up and be any age and think they aren't in love/don't love someone because they don't do romantic gestures.

and who knows, maybe a bit of the science behind how or why attraction happens. but we're going to cure every kind of cancer with a chocolate bar before we can turn that into something a young child can understand. so maybe something like this could have 5 versions. and a 6th that looks like it's condescending and hate, like that guy and his anti therianthrope story about a walrus kid....oh wait that was making fun of transgender people.

Asexual spectrum - From Ace to Z | Asexuals.net but to try to squeeze mention of all of these? can it be done or only done for teenagers ? again, if a 7 year old is going to learn what a bisexual is they can learn what a myrsexual is. which I assume I am

if you think fictos have it easy

Thoughts on Fictosexuality? | Christian Forums think again.

yeah evil sin going to hell beause you have the hots for a make believe person. this is why a book like this is important. then again this is not 100% about fictosexuals

maybe one character can say they never heard of it, and the other can say "you can't find information because of bigotry, bias and machine learning"

and if you think asexuals are praised in religions. think agian 1 Corinthians 7:5 KJV 1900 - Defraud ye not… | Biblia

drawing any and everything would be hard. got to be diverse. disability diversity, invisible disability diversity. weight, hight, anything. I am guessing drawing wheelchairs is hard, because few people do it.

backgrounds. I can't draw this in a class room setting without copying a photo without credit.

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